What's been going on
After our little sex-fest last Sunday, we were both pretty content for a few days. That didn't stop us from having some very heated and passionate love making very late the other night, when we should have been sleeping! It's always a fabulous change of pace to make love, instead of having sex, or having a BDSM session. We still have some aspects of our life that are quite vanilla, despite living in a D/s relationship 24/7.
In the upcoming weeks and months, I plan on making some purchases for our collection of toys and accessories. I have a few items that I want to get for Llama, and for me as well. In addition, I have been browsing through various sites to decide what type of restrainment apparatus I want to get. After looking at many different items, I have narrowed the field down a bit, and a few things I have seen I have decided I can build myself just as well as the commercially sold items and do it cheaper than what they are selling it for.
I also plan on turning Llama loose with some cash to make some purchases on her own. There are several items of attire that she either needs to replace or acquire. Many of our sessions are very, well - shall we say, vigorous? Testament to that is the fact that Llama does not have a single pair of thigh-highs left that are not torn, ripped, or have runs in them. Wearing thigh-highs is a mandatory part of her attire most times I tell her to dress for me. One would say I have an affinity, or fetish, for them. Something rather lovely about a beautiful woman in thigh-highs and heels, with or without a garter belt. Very, very nice. Much more appealing to me than pantyhose. In addition, she is in need of a greater selection of lingerie. Again, a mandatory pre-requisite for her to have. All of what she has, which is a nice little collection, is in good shape, but I firmly believe that variety is the spice of life. Therefore, I want new and different things for her to wear, instead of the same things over and over. Of course, there are a few things she has and wears that are the 'old standbys' as it were. Items and outfits that I truly love, and never tire of. So, I foresee some trips to Victoria's Secret and other shops in our near future. Oddly enough, I don't mind going shopping with her for stuff like that. Normally, I hate to shop, period. I hate going shopping for regular clothes and groceries and stuff like that, as most men do. But when it comes to buying toys, lingerie and things of that nature, I'm all for a day of shopping. Luckily, where we live, we have several independent stores we can shop at, along with a couple of the national chain stores.
She also has expressed the desire to get a new corset. Well, to be fair, the one she has I would classify more as a bustier than a corset. Don't get me wrong, I like the one she has, but I do so love a true corset, as well. Llama so loves the feeling of being constricted, that we both agree it's time for her to get a real one. Only problem is, of the several sites that we have looked at together, they are very, very pricey - like several hundred dollars each. She is not looking for anything really fancy or elaborate, either. If anyone out there knows of a good place to get a quality corset at decent prices, please let us know! So, we'll be looking at some of those in the near future, along with some other lingerie and outfits I want her to have. She should have a fine time shopping for all the things I want her to get.
We've been doing well, with only a minor problem here or there, that is easily dealt with and corrected verbally. She has not needed a punishment in quite some time, I am happy to report. She is coming along quite nicely in her training, although sometimes she does not think so. I know she is learning a great deal, and she has come much farther than she appreciates. I take those rare occasions that require clarification, explanation or scolding in stride, knowing full well she learns from each one - and to be fair, they are rare. It takes a great deal of time to train a new submissive, and she sometimes has higher expectations of herself than I have for her. She does not see the immediate results she thinks she should, but I do see results and I am pleased with her progress.
Llama also has been making great progress in her ability to express to me what she likes and dislikes, and her tolerance for some things has come a long way. She still enjoys certain things more than others, but she has come to enjoy some new things, and is much more receptive to experimenting with others. For instance, she was leary at first about knife play, which I recently introduced her to. After the first time, she found that it was incredibly erotic and a huge turn on for her. She has asked me to take it a bit further, and in time I will, when I think she is ready. Right now, it's still pretty benign when I do it with her. She also has been introduced to wax. She likes the idea of it, but the sensations delivered are still a bit much for her. I need to work her into that slowly, and maybe get the special cooler temperature candles for her. Llama has also expressed a desire for some more intense bondage. This, of course, I am more than willing to provide for her. I will be getting her into some more in depth bondage sessions, with higher degrees of confinement as well. Hence the need for some additional restrainment apparatus. I also will be working her into more and more rope play. Up to this point, it's been fairly simple restrainment and bondage, that will be changing here rather soon. She will be going from wrist and ankle cuffs, tied spread eagle face up or down, to some much more involved scenarios. Our last session included some stretching and modified hog tying. This and much more lies in store for her very soon.
As I said, she is doing quite well and coming along very nicely in her training. I am very proud of her, and could not ask for a better submissive, student and partner. I look forward to our future together, it should continue to be nothing short of incredible.
In the upcoming weeks and months, I plan on making some purchases for our collection of toys and accessories. I have a few items that I want to get for Llama, and for me as well. In addition, I have been browsing through various sites to decide what type of restrainment apparatus I want to get. After looking at many different items, I have narrowed the field down a bit, and a few things I have seen I have decided I can build myself just as well as the commercially sold items and do it cheaper than what they are selling it for.
I also plan on turning Llama loose with some cash to make some purchases on her own. There are several items of attire that she either needs to replace or acquire. Many of our sessions are very, well - shall we say, vigorous? Testament to that is the fact that Llama does not have a single pair of thigh-highs left that are not torn, ripped, or have runs in them. Wearing thigh-highs is a mandatory part of her attire most times I tell her to dress for me. One would say I have an affinity, or fetish, for them. Something rather lovely about a beautiful woman in thigh-highs and heels, with or without a garter belt. Very, very nice. Much more appealing to me than pantyhose. In addition, she is in need of a greater selection of lingerie. Again, a mandatory pre-requisite for her to have. All of what she has, which is a nice little collection, is in good shape, but I firmly believe that variety is the spice of life. Therefore, I want new and different things for her to wear, instead of the same things over and over. Of course, there are a few things she has and wears that are the 'old standbys' as it were. Items and outfits that I truly love, and never tire of. So, I foresee some trips to Victoria's Secret and other shops in our near future. Oddly enough, I don't mind going shopping with her for stuff like that. Normally, I hate to shop, period. I hate going shopping for regular clothes and groceries and stuff like that, as most men do. But when it comes to buying toys, lingerie and things of that nature, I'm all for a day of shopping. Luckily, where we live, we have several independent stores we can shop at, along with a couple of the national chain stores.
She also has expressed the desire to get a new corset. Well, to be fair, the one she has I would classify more as a bustier than a corset. Don't get me wrong, I like the one she has, but I do so love a true corset, as well. Llama so loves the feeling of being constricted, that we both agree it's time for her to get a real one. Only problem is, of the several sites that we have looked at together, they are very, very pricey - like several hundred dollars each. She is not looking for anything really fancy or elaborate, either. If anyone out there knows of a good place to get a quality corset at decent prices, please let us know! So, we'll be looking at some of those in the near future, along with some other lingerie and outfits I want her to have. She should have a fine time shopping for all the things I want her to get.
We've been doing well, with only a minor problem here or there, that is easily dealt with and corrected verbally. She has not needed a punishment in quite some time, I am happy to report. She is coming along quite nicely in her training, although sometimes she does not think so. I know she is learning a great deal, and she has come much farther than she appreciates. I take those rare occasions that require clarification, explanation or scolding in stride, knowing full well she learns from each one - and to be fair, they are rare. It takes a great deal of time to train a new submissive, and she sometimes has higher expectations of herself than I have for her. She does not see the immediate results she thinks she should, but I do see results and I am pleased with her progress.
Llama also has been making great progress in her ability to express to me what she likes and dislikes, and her tolerance for some things has come a long way. She still enjoys certain things more than others, but she has come to enjoy some new things, and is much more receptive to experimenting with others. For instance, she was leary at first about knife play, which I recently introduced her to. After the first time, she found that it was incredibly erotic and a huge turn on for her. She has asked me to take it a bit further, and in time I will, when I think she is ready. Right now, it's still pretty benign when I do it with her. She also has been introduced to wax. She likes the idea of it, but the sensations delivered are still a bit much for her. I need to work her into that slowly, and maybe get the special cooler temperature candles for her. Llama has also expressed a desire for some more intense bondage. This, of course, I am more than willing to provide for her. I will be getting her into some more in depth bondage sessions, with higher degrees of confinement as well. Hence the need for some additional restrainment apparatus. I also will be working her into more and more rope play. Up to this point, it's been fairly simple restrainment and bondage, that will be changing here rather soon. She will be going from wrist and ankle cuffs, tied spread eagle face up or down, to some much more involved scenarios. Our last session included some stretching and modified hog tying. This and much more lies in store for her very soon.
As I said, she is doing quite well and coming along very nicely in her training. I am very proud of her, and could not ask for a better submissive, student and partner. I look forward to our future together, it should continue to be nothing short of incredible.
posted by cva-me at 9/10/2005 04:29:00 PM
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